Sir Plus is a writer and professional sensual service top. While all our welcome, Sirs’ practice caters to Black and other people of color because “we all deserve at least one place where we can be free in our bodies and kink is a space for that.”

Because the world is so often unkind to Black people, Sir Plus built his kink practice on a foundation of being a safe space, the FRIES model of consent, and extra care for those completely new to BDSM. Sir has been kinky well before he had the vocabulary for it, and because his first experience with wax play involved a real candle (Ouch!) safety and doing things properly are a priority.

Sir Plus has a master’s degree in journalism, where his research focused on aggression and consent in popular pornography. That experience was an initial training ground for talking about all things sex and sexuality in an intelligent and empathetic manner.